The more clear you are about what you want, the more confused you will be because the dating pool is so confusing.
Acknowledge one thing for your entire life: You aren’t too much or too intense for someone who wants the same as you. You will be that for men and women who don’t know who they are or what they want in life.
If someone don’t know what they want:
- Don’t date them;
- Don’t fix them;
- Your clarity won’t educate them;
- Be upfront for what is important for you and stick to it.
I want you to remember as long as you are a healthy partner and you don’t have afraid to give because you know, you aren’t scared to lose, you will be bump by people who don’t know what they want, but your real partner will show up and create the right environment where you feel you belong.
Have a wonderful weekend,
Alexandra
Ouso Escrever 
#2 is a big one for me. Sometimes people date and think that they can change that person to who they want them to be. That’s a recipe for disaster. Great tips, Alexandra, and have a great weekend, too!
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That’s why Rob, I believe we have to say clearly and out of fear what WE WANT! The right person for us can have doubts but will always find one way to make things work out. They will communicate their needs, fears, and find strategies to meet us halfway.
Before I start date anyone else, I make it clear that I want a long term relationship, eventually, get married and have kids.
Communicating what we want to the other person helps us to sustain in the future a long term relationship because as long as you are clear about your needs and wants, you are creating the reality we deserve. Co-creating a reality with the other person where love flourishes and safety grows.
Have a wonderful weekend, Rob! 🙂
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words of wisdom
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Thank you Dario!
Have a wonderful weekend! 🙂
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Oh!! Thanks for this blog.
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You are welcome, April 🙂
Have a wonderful weekend 🙂
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#2 should say…you cant fix them
good post
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Thank you buddy!
Have a great weekend 🙂
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Beautifully said.
In relationship coaching, I often have couples draw there attention to their personal goals, ambitions, and dreams. This is the true breeding ground where a relationship can foster and spur our individual growth forward while allowing itself to grow in Union with each partners live for life.
Great topic here Alexandra!
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Thank you so much for your contribution, Tom!
Have a wonderful week! 🙂
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