Today, I want to share this video which represents, the total nightmare that many of us experience when trying to find a good partner. More than often, we reject good people, because they seem “too good” for us and the explanation for that is quite simple. We are not looking for romantic love, we are looking, somehow, for familiar love.
Next time you find someone good, think twice before you kick them out from your life.
Enjoy,
Alexandra
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Very right. I agree 💯!!
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Thank you, Ari 🙂
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You are welcome!!😊 You can call me Arif!!😊
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I will Arif, and thank you for leave your commentary 🙂
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Welcome!! 😊
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“Next time you find someone good, think twice before you kick them out from your life.” YES!!!!!!
i feel we often disregard people for they may have a “blemish” which makes them unsuitable to us. but i also feel we all have “deal breakers” which we can not disregard when looking for someone. we could, in a way, be throwing away people who could be “nice for us” if we can only deal with the blemish.
i find it hard to accept those i feel have what i consider “deal breakers.” i have tried. maybe we both lose. but in the end, one has to have some standards.
a very nice write!
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Dear Buddy,
The concept of the video is quite simple to understand, we reject people who are really good for us because they don’t perform the dynamical familiar behavior.
Do you know the sentence, “dumped for being too perfect?”
Why are they too perfect?
They are too perfect because there is a gap between stability and roller coaster. Too good people are stable. They know what they want and don’t play games.
It’s strange, I know. But it is what it is.
The more we know what we want, and who we are, the more we will be able to navigate through all this turbulence and find someone good for us.
🙂
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There are a few people I “should” share this sensible video with! Thank you for digging it out for us. 🙂
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June,
Thank you so much for your commentary 🙂
Have one wonderful weekend ❤
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Thank you and a wonderful weekend to you too! 🙂
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Very interesting post and video of the beautiful dynamics that can break or make a successful relationship. Thank you for sharing this wonderful post Alexandra. We
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Hello Tom,
Thanks for your commentary.
I love their videos, are very educative and easy to understand.
Have a lovely day 🙂
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Good advice!
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Thank you so much, have a lovely day! 🙂
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Wow, that is so true. And I dont think I ever kicked a good person out of my life for that reason. But I have passed up a lot of opportunities with those who seem too good to be true out of fear.
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We have plenty of time to change that, since the moment we notice our old patterns 🙂
Have a lovely Sunday! 🙂
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Ty. ❤
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