What If You Would Let The Butterflies Fly?

What if you would let the butterflies fly? What if you would allow yourself to experience love and have a rewarding intimate relationship? 

Many are the reasons that can lead people to avoid love, intimacy, connection. Reasons that won’t be exhausted in this short article, but one thing I know for sure, nothing in life is a repetition of what we experienced in the past. When humans believe in this theory that everything will be the same, they are sabotaging new possibilities and new relation dynamics because no one is equal. 

The phobia to live enchantment, passion, and love. The real phobia of living a loving commitment with another person is in the order of the day, but more than that carries psychological and emotional consequences. It is a conscious decision, most of the time, with unconscious reasons rooted in intermittent childhood relationships, traumatic past separations, or divorces, the idealization of someone perfect as a way to avoid and cope with a real prospective partner. 

Stop for a while, and observe not only your behaviors from an external point of view. But also your mental barriers and schemes around intimacy, commitment, loss, disappointment, enmeshment, betrayal, not being seen, and finally, self-worth. 

What if you would let the butterflies fly? What if you would allow yourself to experience love and have a rewarding intimate relationship? 

Many people are choosing not to love. But they shouldn’t, and you shouldn’t forget that all your past experiences happen not to erase love and intimacy from your life, but for you to grow in love. 

It is time to say I trust you. Time to say I care and I do love you, time to build, to embrace. Because time is like sand, don’t let it go through the middle of your fingers. And don’t let anything to say or to do. 

Wishing you a lovely week!

Alexandra