“Once in a while, it’s ok to let our minds wander to unreachable places, forests of vulnerability, rivers of hope.”
Arquivos do autor:Alexandra Maria Santos
How Attachment Style Impacts Relationships
Attachment style shapes all areas of our lives: romantic relationships, friendships, workplace relationships, and other social circumstances, even the way we deal with or think about money is influenced by it.
Portugal and Inequity Aversion
Inequity aversion is the preference for fairness, and those who live by this core rule will always face unethical/transgressive behaviors from others.
Is Your Ass more Relevant than Your Brain?
Do we have a real existence or a charade?
Relationships and the Shadow Work
Never allow anyone to disdain your value or who you are.
Social Media Platforms And Its Swearwords
Before talking about somebody’s else life or even sharing your life and other matters on social media, think about it twice. Think that your actions, and words, can hurt other people unnecessarily, sometimes based on pure ignorance.
Reconditioning Your Core Beliefs to Keep Peace
Science and social science exist to make us feel safe, understood, and part of the community. These recent social waves are part, like it or not, of political and economic forces.
Be aware of it, and when in doubt, seek credentialed information.
What is a Woman?! The Perils of Narcissistic Insanity.
Recently the world has emerged in what I call the madness era of pronouns, the nightmare of well-perceived narcissistic tendencies of people from both barricades emerging from the darkness.
Never in our history have we seen so many people talking about genes, human biology, hormones, and other stuff to justify their positions.
The Kindness of Strangers (2019)
Sometimes saving a life is synonym of being human.
Ricky Gervais’s Show and some Pertinent Societal Questions to Ask!
Medical situations should never be part of the political lobby, nor should either be scrutinized by malicious “ignorants”, where I include journalists, and other related mediatic fields. And the LGBTQIA+ system is part of that reality, that lobby. The more labels we give to people, the more we tear them apart.
Forget the cancel culture. Let’s laugh, but laugh wisely!
The Pain of Not Happening
How many of us fear uncertainty without understanding that this is an opportunity to rebuild or adjust our character? What is our core, our nucleus, if not the door for living an expanding life?
Fear of Missing Out: The Real State Nightmare!
Boy meets the girl. The girl meets the boy. Lovely birds in love as the bell is ringing up in the sky. But, oh no, the nightmare will start, there is no perfect nest, the prices are skying high. Who knows this reality? Please put your hand up in the air!
Society and its Perils
Durvasula (2018) adds: “Law enforcement, legal, and judicial systems are not set up to adequately address domestic violence” (p.195).
“Self-realization demands very great struggle” – Aristotle
Women: The Power of living
Today is Women’s day. But what does it mean to be a woman? Is being a woman marasmus of conceptions that lead nowhere? Competition for the spotlight? I don’t believe in narcissistic theories. Being a woman is all about awareness, the internalization of the impactful roles that we play in our societies, families, and intimate relationships.
Ukraine: What do we have to Learn as Civilizations?
We are witnessing history repetition that was thought to be dead and buried, the bombardment of unnecessary information on social media and mass media. A profound disregard for our rights as humans and our civil integrity.
If you have found your person already, give them all the right reasons to stay because later can be too late.
Let’s stop Female Rivalry!
According to Noam Shpancer (2014), “high status and very attractive women need less help and protection from other women and are less motivated to invest in other women (who represent potential competition). Thus, a woman who tries to distinguish or promote herself threatens other women and will encounter hostility.”
Tears for Fears, Rewriting the Meaning of Being a Powerful Woman
Emotional stable women won’t compete for men. In truth, it will be a turn-off, and they will leave without regrets even if the guy seems to be, at first glance, appealing. Stable women will invade your life with positivity standing by your side and reaching out with insightful conversations that you never had. “She’s the fire and the fallout. She reminds you of the things we never talk about. She’s the lover with the best-laid plan.”
Look for a Life Partner, Wisely!
You may have shared interests. You may feel limerence when with them. But when dating with intentionality, priorities are reliability and stability. And no dating app or social media can provide you that. Awareness and sovereignty are the necessary requisites to achieve your goal.