“The more we see love as an ethereal concept, the more we lose sight of the specific behaviors that make love an active expression of our feelings for others. When we see love as a product of action, however, we can look into ourselves and our relationships with fresh eyes and examine how loving we truly are.”
More than talk about toxicity, we should replace the word toxicity for wound, and reflect on how much we can learn from it and use it to build our singular identity.
“You cannot heal the abandonment wounds until you allow yourself to fully experience your authentic feeling responses to the suffering of past abandonments and that which continues to play out in your present-day relationships. Acknowledge what you’ve gone through and what you’re currently experiencing in your relationships and other aspects of your life. Notice what you’re feeling in response to these concerns. And then be sure to breathe softly and deeply while centering your awareness within any feelings that arise.”
Being around people who don’t know if they like you cause tension and emotional exhaustion. Living in situations of uncertainty generates insecurity and, consequently, emotional instability that will have repercussions on a physical level.
Chose good people to stay with you!
We shouldn’t give up on love; we should just recognize that it’s a skill, not an emotion.
We are living this period where social distance is a rule, where you can’t be with the ones you love, there is no permission to kiss, to hug, to feel warmth of our loved ones. Let’s forget for a while all this drama around coronavirus and look at is as a refresh and beauty opportunity for all of us to take a close introspective approach toward our inner lives and relationships in general.
Before you have afraid of death, be afraid that maybe you were dead and still living. Be afraid that tomorrow will come and you don’t have time enough to live your life according to your intentions, and love those who you love back properly, even if it will be against the will of your family system.
Your family system and your ancestors want you to be even happier than they were without sacrificing your soul and the souls of the ones you love.
Think about it next time you run away from a relationship because of fear. Think about why your brother or sister is rebellious, and have relationships with people outside of your circle. Whom he or she is trying to give peace and light through his or her actions?
“When we feel loved, there is no space for confusion because words are perfectly in tune with behavior. Words and gestures seem to spin and dance with no clouds full of doubts over your head.”
In life and love, you are a natural animal who wants to belong and attach to other people. But in the middle of all this freedom around sex, bad behavior, and detachment. We lost rules and the protocol and ability to speak up our truth and needs. Everyone is scared of being hurt, but let me clarify here one thing: love has no guarantees, and love only grow and flourish when you have no armor or guarded up.
Although some relationships will fail naturally, others fail because people have this idea that good partners are pushovers or too good to be true. This fallacy leads many men and women to have mayonnaise relationships or love in mayonnaise because of fear of being hurt, and someone will take advantage of them.
Don’t be afraid to say what are your real intentions and that you love someone. There is nothing much more powerful than sharing your feelings and honor your love. Life is too short to think afterward what if I…