“The more we see love as an ethereal concept, the more we lose sight of the specific behaviors that make love an active expression of our feelings for others. When we see love as a product of action, however, we can look into ourselves and our relationships with fresh eyes and examine how loving we truly are.”
We are living this period where social distance is a rule, where you can’t be with the ones you love, there is no permission to kiss, to hug, to feel warmth of our loved ones. Let’s forget for a while all this drama around coronavirus and look at is as a refresh and beauty opportunity for all of us to take a close introspective approach toward our inner lives and relationships in general.
Before you have afraid of death, be afraid that maybe you were dead and still living. Be afraid that tomorrow will come and you don’t have time enough to live your life according to your intentions, and love those who you love back properly, even if it will be against the will of your family system.
Your family system and your ancestors want you to be even happier than they were without sacrificing your soul and the souls of the ones you love.
Think about it next time you run away from a relationship because of fear. Think about why your brother or sister is rebellious, and have relationships with people outside of your circle. Whom he or she is trying to give peace and light through his or her actions?
“When we feel loved, there is no space for confusion because words are perfectly in tune with behavior. Words and gestures seem to spin and dance with no clouds full of doubts over your head.”
In a period where easiness is preferred, great are the people who among difficulties reinvent themselves and never stop trying. The perfect life only can exist when you experience real pain and real joy.
To truly love our partners, we cannot see them as adults but as children. As ironic as this idea may be, when we see the ones we love like children, we will be more generous and compassionate in the interpretation of their behavior.
Endless love could be a literary novel. But in reality, it’s the story of one Portuguese couple, where husband’s premature death leads his wife to want to fulfill his/their last wish. Have a child.
They dump you because you were too good to be true?
There are some individuals when they found what they always wanted (mentally). They think there is one agenda behind the good, or you try to use them. But you know what? Never, ever be less! Never be the less of what you are to accept less of what you deserve/want.
Acknowledge one thing for your entire life: You aren’t too much or too intense for someone who wants the same as you. You will be that for men and women who don’t know who they are or what they want in life.
Those who are resilient are able to believe in themselves and their ability to effectively manage life’s challenges. Also, those who are more resilient than others tend to be more proactive and are more inclined to work hard to prevent certain issues and illnesses from occurring. It might be their only key to survival.
“Good relationships take commitment and work and helping the other partner grow and mature throughout both the good and bad times. The partners within them must keep learning from each other and are willing to acknowledge the mistakes they make along the way.”