Attachment style shapes all areas of our lives: romantic relationships, friendships, workplace relationships, and other social circumstances, even the way we deal with or think about money is influenced by it.
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Portugal and Inequity Aversion
Inequity aversion is the preference for fairness, and those who live by this core rule will always face unethical/transgressive behaviors from others.
Relationships and the Shadow Work
Never allow anyone to disdain your value or who you are.
Merry Christmas!
The Kindness of Strangers (2019)
Sometimes saving a life is synonym of being human.
The Pain of Not Happening
How many of us fear uncertainty without understanding that this is an opportunity to rebuild or adjust our character? What is our core, our nucleus, if not the door for living an expanding life?
Society and its Perils
Durvasula (2018) adds: “Law enforcement, legal, and judicial systems are not set up to adequately address domestic violence” (p.195).
Women: The Power of living
Today is Women’s day. But what does it mean to be a woman? Is being a woman marasmus of conceptions that lead nowhere? Competition for the spotlight? I don’t believe in narcissistic theories. Being a woman is all about awareness, the internalization of the impactful roles that we play in our societies, families, and intimate relationships.
ONE DAY!
If you have found your person already, give them all the right reasons to stay because later can be too late.
Let’s stop Female Rivalry!
According to Noam Shpancer (2014), “high status and very attractive women need less help and protection from other women and are less motivated to invest in other women (who represent potential competition). Thus, a woman who tries to distinguish or promote herself threatens other women and will encounter hostility.”
Look for a Life Partner, Wisely!
You may have shared interests. You may feel limerence when with them. But when dating with intentionality, priorities are reliability and stability. And no dating app or social media can provide you that. Awareness and sovereignty are the necessary requisites to achieve your goal.
To be Loved by Adele
Self-love isn’t the cure for all ailments. Dealing with another person requires maturity and having at least all drawers in the right place.
The Neediness Trap: Set Yourself Free
You are here to live your experience to the fullest, not to be the clown of somebody else’s circus.
Adult Conjugality
Adult conjugality requires focus, understanding, and time. Time to cement feelings of mutuality and companionship.
Why Can’t You Find a Partner?
By removing your body and mind from what feels comfortable, you are opening new doors, new possibilities, and trust me, looking at kindhearted individuals will be a brand newish thrilling experience.
‘Thirty Heaven’
My birthday. A message.
Are You an Intimidating Woman? No! Just a Fragile and Stronger Human Being.
The most rewarding experiences come from different people who can align themselves in life together. Remember, perhaps tomorrow we might not be here, so as long as we are, be sure to surpass yourself to the point where the one you love will continue his or her’s prosperity even in your absence. Because you nurtured their individuality and saw who they were despite their ‘malfunctions’.
We are humans. We are fragile beings.
Freedom to Love Begins Within.
Would it be better to assume that we have no education for love and, perhaps, help is needed?
Do We Really Need Dating Games? – World Sexual Health Day
We have at least 90 years of credits to live. Please, live it wisely without constrictions or thinking about if acceptance by peers will be granted. Do not ever take anyone for granted, and be sure that from them. You learned the best.
I Wanna Love You… But I Don’t by Ben Platt
We are indoctrinated since a young age by movies, songs, and role models that love is an automatic response. That we must find the perfect person, the soulmate, “the one”, and everything will flow. We aren’t taught or teaching our children how to deal with frustration. Different points of view, general differences on how to approach daily life matters.
Sadly, the rule now is if there is a difference, then the other person isn’t the right fit for us.
How to Transform Your Relationship with an Anxious Preoccupied Partner?
Nothing is set in stone, and as adults, we can change our lives and relational dynamics to a better place. Lastly, as human beings, we are emotionally responsible for ourselves but also for our loved ones. Be kind to you, be kind to the ones you love or once were loved by you.
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